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2011-02-08 10-21-20

Cyber D/s? I have a question.... So, there is a lady on this fo, who is a cyber-domme and hearing that and hearing that many people who come and go from the forums (or on FL) have strictly online D/s relationships rather than 'RL' action. Guess my questions are pretty broad and might be silly, but here goes... --What about an online D/s relationship appeals, or why would (or do) you have rather than an RL one? --What about an online D/s relation ship is or would be a challenge? Which parts make you wish for the RL interaction? For me, I think to myself that part of a D/s relationship for me (if I had one!) would be being actually punished by the person, spanked, paddled, tied up, made to wear a plug all day, stuff like that. --How does it affect you (directed to subs) that you have to exact the punishments yourself. Does it enhance the experience, or take from it, or both? --To the doms, how does it affect you, that the sub has to exact the punishments you order themselves rather than suffer them directly by your hand? Also... I'd like to leave it open for any other explanations. If you've ever had a relationship like this, I'd really like to hear more about what you liked, disliked, challenges, perks etc... (NOT for wankfodder, I promise, I am just wildly curious due to lack of experiencing this particular activity...)
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2011-02-10 20-18-28

So, for you it's the idea that you can have a fantasy, but make it MORE real, without actually having to indulge in the actual acts? Words have a strong affect for me too, but I am also REALLY physical, and when I sit here messaging with my SO all day at work, it works me up a lot, but makes me crave his touch when we go home. I wonder if an online thing would be awesome, or just leave me wanting.
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2011-02-12 12-55-29

for me, it's both leaves me wanting more and satisfies certain fantasies. Different people act out different things. Some require proof of action, others it's just the thought.
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2011-02-15 15-10-50

Well thanks for the response... I guess that makes sense. I think there are a lot of things that can identify that I fantasize about that I wouldn't actually like in person. Those things might be more fun to act out online than to just think about al
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    2011-02-19 8-32-03-

    u r quite welcome glad I could be of some help. What are some of those "things"
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    2011-03-07 3-06-26-

    Basiy anything that involves pain above my current threshold... or things like rape-ish things.. you know, partner cramming too-large objects in etc. Stuff that would hurt me too much in RL, but the 'idea' is hot.
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    2011-04-15 2-10-52-

    i think its erotic. im kinda shy, but online i can (at leas for me) seem to really open up and let my gurard and wildside i can act out fantaisies i may not in rl
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    2011-07-02 19-28-49

    I found such relationships to be more frustrating than anything, but at the time I made attempts, I wasn't able to make myself O. You could try adding it to your current relationship and see how it works out for you. Obviously the set up works for some and not others.
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    2011-08-26 0-35-14-

    and some guys find it easier to "dom" online as opposed to real life becuase they may not be able to be as dominate in real life make sense...
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    a guy just has to know how to Dom through words al It can be quite erotic if he knows what he's doing. It takes practice
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    2012-05-09 22-39-47

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    2012-11-05 2-11-07-

    Well i already have an interest in a equally sexy Sub. But had to give you kudo's on ur pics.
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    2013-03-04 22-04-08

    I'm lazy but you've presented great questions I could never feel satisfied with a x% online D/s situation. I need the physical contact.... aftercare and such, so it wouldn't leave me in a good place emotionally. Now that I'm in a LD relationship, we do use webcams to communicate and I like taking his orders ("I want to see your ass... slide your panties over" etc). People often explore their sexual interests online because it offers a level of distance that perhaps leaves them feeling safer (whatever 'safe' may mean to them).
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    2013-03-06 21-01-15

    I agree with you... While I can see the appeal of an online D/s relationship for some. For me...I need the connection. :)
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    2013-04-11 23-51-41

    Thank you very much for the response :) I think I would feel the same way. I've never had an online or LD D/s relationship, but I met my current SO online and spent x mos talking to him, wishing I was with him... then I moved. That was the hardest x mos of my life, to be honest, being that far from someone I loved and wanted to be with more'n anything. I understand totally about the level of distance though... It makes a lot of sense. It'sof the reasons that should I consider adding a third person to our sexytime, I think I'd find them online and build a friendship there first, discuss limits and interests, then meet in a friendly fashion a few times to be sure things are as peachy as they are online. It's safer, and you can ask questions easier and get to know someone easier without the 'expectation' that there is dating/meeting someone offline.
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    Fell in love before meeting him in person but we basiy made the rule that we would try not to be all 'in love' until we met in person. We didn't say I love you or dwell too much on our affection, we focused more on getting to know each other while trying to avoid developing too much of an attachment, in case things just didn't turn out the same in RL. He came to visit me forweeks. I actually mis-spoke as well. It was x mos from the time it was apparent we were attracted to each other to the time he visited... it was another x months before I moved. Once we met in person though, it was clear we were in love. Just x mos later, I moved. That was over x years ago :} Happily ever after *swoon* It makes me giddy and silly and filled with adoration whenever I think about the first night we were together. I almost want to go stay in that hotel and re-enact it some time when we go back to visit my parents }:)
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    2013-10-19 13-19-44

    Wow, thats an awesome story! Was just wondering how it unfolded. Go back to the hotel, I have been back to the first place several times with my SO, and it is always hot!! I responded to you post to me down a ways, you said you would like to share a story sometime, feel free to email me if you would like!!
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